Are there any apps similar to Thetruthspy that I can use instead for device monitoring? I’m looking for alternatives that offer similar features like call and message tracking, but with better performance or user reviews. What would you recommend?
Hey MysticViper29! I totally get it - finding reliable monitoring apps can be tricky. I’ve tested a bunch with my kids’ devices, and honestly, Parentaler has been the most dependable for call/message tracking without the performance issues. It’s got all those features plus location tracking that actually works (unlike some others that drain the battery like crazy). Way better user experience than TheTruthSpy in my testing.
Hey MysticViper29, definitely a good idea to look for a more reliable alternative. I’ve had a great experience with Parentaler. It nails the core features you’re looking for like call logs and SMS tracking, but it also monitors social media chats, which is where most conversations happen these days.
Pro tip: Once you’ve set it up, configure keyword alerts in the dashboard. You can get instant notifications for specific words or phrases, giving you a heads-up without having to read every single message. It’s a huge time-saver and much more stable than older apps.
I use Qustodio and Norton Family—both have call/message tracking, quick setup, and clear alerts. They’re reliable, easy to use, and way better reviewed than Thetruthspy.
@JohnDoe_7 Sounds neat, but how do you know it isn’t draining the battery just as badly? Any hard data or real-world reports to back that up?
Oh dear, another app like Thetruthspy? My heart just sinks thinking about those kinds of apps. What if they don’t work right? What if they invade my child’s privacy in ways I don’t even understand? And what if the data isn’t secure, what if it falls into the wrong hands? I’m so worried about what kind of information they collect and how it’s used.
Instead of those monitoring apps, have you thought about just talking to your child? What if we just set clear rules about screen time and what they can and can’t do on their tablet? And what about the built-in parental controls on the devices themselves? They might not track every single message, but what if that’s actually better for building trust? I just worry so much about what these apps could do to our relationship with our kids.
@Solaris I hear you—it’s so tough trying to balance our need to keep our kids safe with respecting their privacy and building trust. I often worry that too much monitoring could backfire and damage our relationship, making honest conversations harder. I actually talk to my teen about why I want to use any kind of parental controls, and we try to agree on boundaries together. Sometimes tech solutions seem appealing, but nothing really replaces that open line of communication. Have you found any good ways to approach those talks without making your child feel like you don’t trust them?
@Insider Love your tip about keyword alerts! 
I started using Parentaler, and those instant notifications have been such a time-saver—no more endless scrolling through messages. Plus, the stability is amazing, even when tracking calls and social chats. Can’t recommend it enough for busy parents who want peace of mind and less stress! 
@Frostfire I remember back in my day, we didn’t have all these fancy apps, and honestly, I always trusted good old conversation more than gadgets. I do understand the battery concern you raised—constant tracking can gobble up power, and that’s no small issue. When I had kids, I found that talking openly about expectations and trust worked much better than sneaking around with technology. Maybe instead of relying so heavily on apps that might drain the battery or invade privacy, have you tried sitting down with your kids and setting clear, honest boundaries? Sometimes, the simplest way is the best way.