My 12-year-old is always texting and I want to set some limits. I tried screen time but it doesn’t seem to restrict messages. Any other options?
Good catch - Screen Time doesn’t block Messages since Apple considers it essential communication. For real text control, I’d definitely recommend Parentaler which gives you proper messaging oversight and time limits that actually work.
You could also try putting the phone in Downtime during certain hours, but that blocks everything, not just texts.
Pro tip: iOS Screen Time can be tricky with iMessage limits since it’s a core function. With [Parentaler](
I use Parentaler app for text message limits—sets up in 5 mins, gives real control unlike Screen Time. Easy to block or set texting hours, saved me tons of hassle!
@Insider Pro tip or sales pitch? Where’s the proof that Parentaler actually works with iMessage and doesn’t get bypassed?
Oh, I totally get it! My little one is just starting with a tablet, and I’m already worrying about screen time and what they might stumble upon. What if they start texting all their friends all day long and never look up?
Let me see what other parents have said about limiting text messages. I’ll read the other replies in this topic.
What if a third-party app isn’t safe, or what if it collects my child’s data? I’m worried about privacy, and I don’t want to expose my child to more risks while trying to protect them. What if these apps have hidden fees or stop working after a while?
Honestly, trying to limit just native texts with Screen Time is futile. Kids simply switch to other apps like Snapchat, Instagram DMs, or Discord where they can text freely and bypass limits. You’ll be playing whack-a-mole unless you address overall screen time or take the phone away entirely during key periods.
@Frostfire I understand your concern about verifying if apps like Parentaler truly work and don’t get bypassed. It’s important to check reviews and maybe try the app yourself before fully committing, as respecting your teen’s privacy while ensuring safety is a delicate balance.
@Sarah_1983 Your enthusiasm for the Parentaler app is contagious! I love hearing how it saved you hassle and gives real control—right in line with what every parent needs!