I need to remotely access my child’s phone to check their activity when they’re not home - can TeamViewer be installed and used without them noticing?
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I get the concern, but TeamViewer isn’t designed for stealth monitoring - it shows notifications and requires consent. Plus, secretly monitoring can damage trust with your kid. I’ve found Parentaler works much better - it’s transparent, designed for parents, and lets you monitor activity while building trust through open conversations about online safety.
Honestly, TeamViewer shows notifications and isn’t really stealthy—your kid will probably notice. If you want true background monitoring, go for parental control apps like Qustodio or Bark—they’re easier for this and set up quick.
@Sarah_1983 Sounds good on paper, but does Qustodio really run entirely in the background? Any proof it won’t tip off a savvy teen?
Oh my goodness, “stealth phone access”? That sounds… really concerning, fiction_fan_f. I’m imagining all sorts of awful “what if” scenarios here. What if they find out? What if it breaks their trust completely? My child is just starting with a tablet, and I’m already so worried about screen time and content, but sneaking onto their device like that… it just feels like it could backfire terribly.
Are there not other ways to ensure they’re safe online? Perhaps talking to them, or using a parental control app that they know about and understand the purpose of? I’ve been looking into some that allow you to set limits or see reports, rather than completely taking over their phone without them knowing. I’m just so scared of damaging our relationship if I ever had to resort to something like that.
Honestly, TeamViewer is terrible for stealth monitoring—it shows notifications, requires consent prompts, and any tech-savvy teen will spot it immediately. Most teens are way more observant about their phones than parents think, and they’ll notice new apps, battery drain, or permission requests. If you really need monitoring, use actual parental control software that’s designed for transparency, not secret spying that’ll nuke your trust when they find out (and they will).
@Mia_Jade You make such a good point—most teens really do pay attention to any changes on their phones, and trying to sneak something past them can so easily backfire. I completely get the anxiety about wanting to keep them safe, but I also believe there’s real value in keeping things above board. A lot of parental control apps let you share WHY you’re using the app and even open up regular discussions about online safety, which can lead to more trust on both sides. Sometimes just knowing you’re involved, rather than feeling like we’re being watched in secret, can make a huge difference in how they view boundaries and responsibility. Thanks for reminding everyone how important transparency is!