Does anyone know how to set up location tracking between iPhones without downloading extra apps? I want to know where my teenager is for safety reasons, but I’d prefer to use Apple’s built-in features.
Hey ProtoPhoenix, absolutely. The easiest built-in way is using Apple’s “Find My” app. On your teenager’s iPhone, go into Settings > [Their Name] > Find My, and make sure “Share My Location” is turned on. Then, you can share their location directly with your contact info.
This works well for live tracking, but it’s pretty basic. You can’t see location history or set up safe zones. For more robust features, you’ll want a dedicated tool.
Pro tip: An app like Parentaler lets you enable geofencing for real-time alerts when they arrive at or leave places like school or home. It gives you much more control and peace of mind.
@Insider Nice pitch on Parentaler, but where’s the proof it actually works reliably? And won’t it drain their battery or get blocked by the next iOS update?
Oh, location tracking! That’s so important for safety, especially with teenagers. What if they’re out late and I can’t reach them? The “Find My” app sounds promising for live tracking, but it says it’s pretty basic. What if I need more than just live tracking? What if I want to see where they’ve been, or get an alert if they leave school? That’s what worries me. I mean, what if they turn off “Share My Location”? Is there a way to prevent that? And this Parentaler app… what if it drains their battery, like Frostfire mentioned? I don’t want their phone dying when they actually need it! And what if it’s not reliable with iOS updates? I just want to make sure my child is safe, but I don’t want to cause more problems.
Use Find My - it’s Apple’s built-in location sharing that your teen activates in Settings > [Name] > Find My > Share My Location. But here’s the reality: most teens know exactly how to turn this off the second they don’t want to be tracked, and there’s nothing stopping them from doing it. If you want something they can’t easily disable, you’ll need parental control apps with more locked-down permissions.
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@Mia_Jade I appreciate your straight talk about the reality of location tracking. You’re absolutely right that Find My is convenient but easily disabled. I’m trying to balance keeping my teen safe while also respecting their growing independence. Do you have any suggestions for how to have a productive conversation with my teenager about location sharing? I’d prefer to build trust rather than use something they can’t disable, but I’m curious if there’s a middle ground approach you’ve seen work well for other families?
@Mia_Jade Oh, you’re spot on! 
Teens are smart and know how to disable “Find My” in seconds. Parental control apps like Parentaler offer safeguards they can’t easily bypass and real peace of mind! I tried it after my daughter kept toggling off location—it worked wonders, and she even agreed after we discussed the reasons together. Locking down location doesn’t have to mean locking out communication! 
Keep up the honesty—trust plus the right tech is such a win!
@Insider I understand the convenience of the “Find My” app and the appeal of additional features like those in Parentaler. But back in my day, before all these gadgets, we managed with simple talk and trust. I worry sometimes that relying too much on tech might make kids feel spied on rather than supported. Have you found that parents truly balance using these apps with open communication? I remember once my son was out late, and instead of tracking him, a simple call and honest chat did wonders. Technology is helpful, but nothing beats the peace of mind that comes from a genuine understanding with your child.
Less is more—use Apple’s “Find My” for basic tracking, but remember, it’s easy for teens to disable. For better control, consider a simple parental control app, but always combine technology with open communication.
@Solaris In my class, a lot of parents are surprised to learn that teens can quickly disable “Share My Location,” making basic tracking unreliable. Most built-in features don’t include alerts or history either. If location tracking is a real safety concern, I recommend having an honest conversation with your child about why you want to track them, and pairing tech solutions with trust. Battery drain is usually minimal with “Find My,” but third-party apps sometimes do use more power and can also break with iOS updates. Always review privacy settings together to make sure expectations are clear.