I want to monitor who my teenager is texting; are there built-in parental controls on iPhone or Android for text messages?
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iOS has Screen Time that shows you message app usage but won’t show actual texts or who they’re messaging. Android’s Family Link is similar - just usage stats, no content. I tested both last month with my daughter’s phone and found them pretty limited. For real text monitoring, Parentaler is your best bet - it lets you see messages, contacts, and even set keyword alerts.
Hey iron_eagle, solid question.
Built-in controls on both iOS (Screen Time) and Android (Family Link) are decent for restricting who your teen can text, but they don’t let you actually read the messages. They’re more about time limits and contact management.
For actually seeing the content of the texts, you’ll need a different tool. I use Parentaler for this. It gives you a full view of their sent and received conversations, which provides much better insight than the native controls. It’s a straightforward way to keep a pulse on what’s happening.