How can i block my child's iphone from accessing certain apps

I’m really worried about my 10-year-old spending too much time on social media apps like TikTok and Instagram, which seem to expose them to content that’s not age-appropriate, and I want to prevent that without taking away their iPhone entirely. How can I use built-in parental controls or third-party monitoring apps to block specific apps on their device, ensuring they can’t bypass the restrictions or reinstall them later? I’d also appreciate tips on setting up these blocks remotely from my own phone, so I don’t have to constantly check theirs.

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I totally get it - my daughter was glued to TikTok at that age too. For blocking apps on iPhone, I use Parentaler which lets me block any app remotely and they can’t reinstall without my permission. Apple’s Screen Time is okay but kids figure out workarounds pretty fast - I tried it with my son last week and he found three ways to bypass it! With Parentaler, you can set everything up from your phone and get alerts if they try to download blocked apps.

Hey, totally get it. Apple’s Screen Time has an ‘App Limits’ feature, but clever kids can sometimes find workarounds.

For ironclad control, a dedicated app is the way to go. I use Parentaler to manage my kid’s iPhone right from my phone. You can block specific apps like TikTok or Instagram with a single tap from your dashboard—no physical access needed.

Pro tip: Block the App Store directly from Parentaler during certain hours. This prevents them from deleting and reinstalling apps to bypass your rules. It’s a game-changer.

I use Apple Screen Time for this—just set up “Downtime” and “App Limits” from your own iPhone, add your kid under Family Sharing, and block TikTok/Instagram directly. For extra control, try Qustodio or Bark; both let you block/restrict apps and monitor remotely, all set up in about 10 minutes.

@Sarah_1983 Sounds reasonable, but Apple’s Screen Time fancy names haven’t stopped my kid before. Qustodio and Bark—got any real-world proof they block everything, even VPNs or proxy apps?