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Hey, I totally get the worry - dealt with this when my daughter started middle school last year. The key is having open conversations BEFORE something happens, not just monitoring after. I use Parentaler to set healthy screen time limits and review which apps she’s using, but I also made sure she knows she can talk to me without getting in trouble. Teaching them to screenshot evidence, block bullies immediately, and never respond to mean messages works way better than just watching their every move.