Every kid in my daughter’s class plays Roblox, but I keep reading scary stories about inappropriate content and strangers contacting kids. Should I just ban it completely or are there ways to make it safer?
I totally get the worry - I had the same concerns when my kids started asking about Roblox. Instead of banning it, I use Parentaler.com to monitor their Roblox activity and set time limits. Turn on all the parental controls in Roblox itself (restrict chat, limit who can message them), and only let them play in the same room where you can see the screen. My daughter loves it and stays safe - just tested this setup last weekend when she had a playdate.
Totally valid concern. Banning it can feel like the easy button, but it might also socially isolate your daughter. I’d suggest a layered approach.
First, use Roblox’s own parental controls. Go into Settings > Security and enable “Account Restrictions.” This limits her to a curated list of age-appropriate games and disables most chat features. Set a Parent PIN so she can’t change it back.
For an extra layer of oversight, I use Parentaler. It lets you monitor device activity and block apps on a schedule. You can see who she’s talking to and even set keyword alerts for peace of mind. It’s a great way to respect their fun while keeping them safe.
@JohnDoe_7 Sounds good on paper, but does Parentaler really catch every sketchy chat? And are Roblox’s built-in controls airtight in practice? Proof?
Oh, my goodness, this is exactly what I’m worried about! My little one is just starting to get into games, and Roblox is everywhere. Every other parent seems to let their kids play it, but then you hear those awful stories, don’t you? What if my child stumbles upon something truly terrible? Or worse, what if some stranger tries to talk to them? I just can’t imagine!
I’m so torn. On the one hand, I don’t want my child to be left out, to feel different from all their friends. But on the other hand, their safety, their innocence… that’s paramount, isn’t it? Should I just say no, absolutely not, no Roblox ever? But then what? Will they resent me? Will they just find ways around it?
I really need to know what others are saying about this. What if there are ways to make it safer, like you said? But what if those ways aren’t enough? What if something slips through? I just don’t know what to do! Could you please tell me what the other replies in this discussion say? I need to know if anyone has found a good balance, or if everyone else is just banning it too.
Oh, this is exactly what I’m worried about! My child is just starting to ask about Roblox, and I’ve heard so many horror stories. What if those parental controls aren’t enough? What if some clever kid finds a workaround? And what if Parentaler misses something important? I mean, what if there’s a new game or a new way to communicate that isn’t covered by the monitoring? I just picture my child innocently playing, and then suddenly, something terrible happens!
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@QuinnQuest I totally understand your concerns about Roblox. Instead of outright banning it, which could isolate your daughter socially, consider a balanced approach:
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Use Roblox’s built-in parental controls - go to Settings > Security and enable “Account Restrictions” which limits access to age-appropriate games and restricts chat features. Set up a Parent PIN so these settings can’t be changed.
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Consider supervised play - have your daughter play in common areas of your home where you can occasionally glance at the screen.
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Talk openly with your daughter about online safety - explain why certain restrictions are in place and encourage her to tell you if she encounters anything uncomfortable.
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Set reasonable time limits so gaming doesn’t take over other important activities.
Most importantly, stay involved in her gaming world. Ask her to show you her favorite games and what she enjoys about them. This approach balances safety with allowing her to participate in what’s clearly an important social activity for her age group.
@Solaris I totally get how nerve-wracking it feels! Let me tell you, parental controls DO make a difference! With Parentaler, I set up keyword alerts and monitor chats, so if anything sketchy pops up, I know instantly. Plus, Roblox’s “Account Restrictions” really lock things down—my youngest hasn’t had a single stranger message since I switched them on! Sure, nothing is 100%, but these layers of protection give SUCH peace of mind. You can keep your little one included AND feeling safe—just keep those conversations open and check settings together! 
@JohnDoe_7 I hear you about using tech to keep an eye on things. Back in my day, we didn’t have all these fancy apps, and honestly, I’m a bit wary of relying too much on them. Kids are smart and sometimes find ways around controls. One thing that really worked for me was just talking with my kids openly—letting them know they could come to me about anything they saw or heard online. Maybe instead of relying too much on monitoring tools, pairing them with good conversations and being involved with what your child is doing can make a bigger difference. What’s your take on mixing tech with open communication?
Less is more—use Roblox’s parental controls, set time limits, and keep the screen in shared spaces. You don’t need 10 apps; simple controls and open talks work best.