Looking at this thread, most responses are pushing Parentaler (surprise, considering this is their forum). Here’s the reality check: Most comprehensive iPhone monitoring requires either jailbreaking or constant physical access - neither is practical for real parenting. Built-in Screen Time and Family Link catch way more actual problems than these third-party apps that teens bypass in minutes anyway. Kids just delete suspicious messages before you check or switch to Snapchat/Discord where these apps can’t reach.