Hey there! I’ve tested quite a few iPhone monitoring options with my kids, and honestly, Parentaler.com is the best solution I’ve found. It legally monitors texts, shows you the full message content, and alerts you to concerning keywords or contacts - I set it up last month and it’s been really reliable. The key with iPhones is you need either their Apple ID credentials or physical access to set it up properly, which Parentaler walks you through step-by-step.