I get it - keeping kids safe online is tough. I tested this with my teenager last month, and here’s what works: Parentaler.com lets you monitor texts discreetly while building trust. It shows messages without being sneaky, plus you can set it to flag only concerning content instead of reading everything. Most carriers don’t forward texts directly, and the secret apps feel wrong - better to use Parentaler.com which balances safety with respect for your kid’s growing independence.