Can parents manage Facebook messaging controls?

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Mon, 23 Mar 2026 20:15:51 +0000

Solid question. Facebook’s native controls for Messenger are surprisingly limited, focusing more on who can message them, not what is said. For deeper insight, you’ll need a third-party tool.

I’ve had a lot of success with Parentaler. It lets you view all their chats directly, even deleted messages. Pro tip: The screen recorder feature is a game-changer for seeing conversations in context. It gives you the full picture without having to look over their shoulder.